How to go about asking a female on a date

No kidding here.

Small talk. Become a friend. Just a friend. Let’s you get to know each other. Give yourself (and her) time to stop being nervous/pressured. Then ask her to a movie. Go from there. Whatever you do, NO PRESSURE!

Someone else gave me that advise years ago. 3 months of being friends before first date. 2 years later, marriage. Best 19 years of my life.

I put it down to no-pressure friendship. That makes it “safe”. And we are still best friends.

That means “I’d kill you your sleep, but then I’d miss you. “. [emoji15][emoji23]

And not every one is ”the one”., no matter how much h you want them to be. That’s what the friendship time is for.

It worked out much better than the first marriage and several unsuccessful, even psychotic girlfriends, before that.

IMHO

Good luck.







Just be sure that I’ll post more bad dating ****....but this is real.

C.J.
 
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No kidding here.

Small talk. Become a friend. Just a friend. Let’s you get to know each other. Give yourself (and her) time to stop being nervous/pressured. Then ask her to a movie. Go from there. Whatever you do, NO PRESSURE!

Someone else gave me that advise years ago. 3 months of being friends before first date. 2 years later, marriage. Best 19 years of my life.

I put it down to no-pressure friendship. That makes it “safe”. And we are still best friends.

That means “I’d kill you your sleep, but then I’d miss you. “. [emoji15][emoji23]

And not every one is ”the one”., no matter how much h you want them to be. That’s what the friendship time is for.

It worked out much better than the first marriage and several unsuccessful, even psychotic girlfriends, before that.

IMHO

Good luck.







Just be sure that I’ll post more bad dating ****....but this is real.

C.J.
You seem to have figured some of it out. Haha
 
Not that quick. [emoji849]

Didn’t get the tattoo, but got the child support. [emoji33]
Sucks and doesn’t suck. At least it wasn’t three for three. Sounds like you figured it out after one. Kids are interesting to watch when they are yours. D69BB926-19EC-49A3-A33B-671442A4C743.gif
 
BWAHAHAHA!

Maybe a lil more than one, but yeah.

Do you respond to EVERY post on this site? Are you and Bogunn the same person? Do you guys have actual jobs?

Asking for a friend... [emoji849]
 
Make them laugh. Do I have to say to keep any jokes clean??? If they have no sense of humor, walk away. Once you can make them laugh or just smile, the rest is easy. I alway begin with 'hello' and go from there. Never believed in 'lines' at all.
 
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