You got 55000 miles out of your stock brakes. Do yourself a favor stick with stock. You won’t ever get that many miles out of aftermarket brakes. I’m 55 and owned Toyota trucks all my life and found using OEM parts is a little more expensive at first but you save over the long term.
I’m an assistant fire chief and I have a 2016 Tacoma outfitted with light allover it. I have rear warning lights inside my cab against the back window I also have headlight and taillight flashers and my fog light alternate as well. If you know basic wiring it’s pretty simple.