Well the dream wedding we wanted, is not what we are having, but I don't care to be honest. Marrying an amazing lady, and doing it our way. Government quacks say maximum of 60 people, we are having 429. I wrote a letter to the cops, told them the date, location, and amount of people who are going to be there, said if they want to arrest us all, bring a lot of cars and cuffs, every person there has agreed to be arrested, I told them all I was going to write this letter. I dropped it off in person at the cop shop. Have 27 people who are bringing bbqs, and I will have boxes and boxes of hamburger patties, buns, lots of condiments, and also a few cases of steaks, and many bags of potatoes to bake, for those who choose to cook their own. KFC manager herself is delivering 30 buckets of chicken, 60 boxes of fries, and Domino's is delivering 8 kinds of pizza, 4 large of each type. 49 people are bringing a salad of various kinds, and 61 are bringing a dessert of some type, i have 700 paper plates, and a lot of plastic cutlery and cups. There will be 44 coolers full of various drinks, a very cool DJ, who also happens to be my cousin as well as a professional DJ. Pool and hot tub are open, 5 dedicated ski/wakeboard boats, and 9 regular boats to take people who want to go out for rides or pulled on a tube. At last count there will be 27 PWC including mine, and for anyone who wants to leave their little kids to nap or play, in the shop will be set up sleeping mats with blankets, tables, lots of arts and crafts supplies, and 6 girls who all have a lot of daycare experience, to supervise kids from newborns up to age 10. I've invited my neighbors to, but told them no need to rsvp, just show up if they want to...all said they are coming, so add another two dozen plus or so to my official list. A deli is making me up 8 large cheese platter, and 8 large deli meat platters, and I will buy a lot of different salad dressings to put out, and a lot of dinner buns. Its not about fancy, it's about joy and love! Cops already called me to chat, said thanks for the heads up, but they won't be coming by to break it up.