Thanks jztacoma now I'm really stuck on bumpers. Relentless and pelfreybilt have some really nice looking stuff. Thanks for the tip. I emailed both of them last night.
Skullztrucker haha yeah it's he struggle I've been going through. The arb is also nice but it's to bulky for me and has no tow points for the 2nd gen tacomas. What is making me go more towards relentless is that you can get the build it yourself kit