Hi Ed, I'm sure sorry that happened to you, but like the old saying goes (**** Happens) .
Have you ever done any body work? I can't tell if there are any dents that need pulling out, doesn't look like it.
If it's just a matter of sanding out all the scratches with maybe a little (very Little) body filler you can do it yourself, except for the painting.
But if you can get it sanded out and primed, you might be able to talk to a local body shop to shoot it when they have another vehicle using that colour for a few bucks.
Also I don't know a lot about insurance, but you might be able to claim it on your dads homeowner insurance, just a thought.
Good luck.