tooter
Well-Known Member
charming, outgoing men can be misunderstood sometimes, but this behavior can get old fast and sour a relationship over time. you and B have been around each other for a while and i'm sure she fully aware of what she's getting into. just dont mess up a good thing. a little goes along way. girls (or guys) may be cool with certain behavior before marriage. after marriage, can be a different chapter all together. especially when children come into the picture. [emoji846] just sayingB knows me, she already expects to be laughing as I read my vows to her.
She seems to get me really well. About a week ago her Dad called her, saying that he suspected his wife was having an affair, and worse, it was with me.
She laughed, told him to stop over reacting, said I would never do that, and just drive to the house and ask me straight up what was going on.
B wasn't worried that I was cheating on her, much less with her mother.